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I continued “Ok thanks for understanding, see if we sent our husbands to those Canadian girls, we don’t know about those girls behavior or their thought.
It is very unsecure.
So I’m thinking why don’t we stop our husband’s from going for swap with Canadian couple ?
And give them an option of swapping just within us? I mean, Rajesh sleeps with you and Vinod will sleep with me? ”
I gave a bit pause and said “Please don’t mistake me for saying this plan, I’m not saying this plan with any lust or desire on your husband.
I’m proposing this idea with a broader thought to minimize our risk in sending our husbands to Canadian girl”
I gave a pause to watch for Harini’s reaction. I noticed that Harini is in complete shock, but definitely not angry with my idea. It seems she is truly believing that I and she are in problem and she believes me that I’m proposing this idea without any bad intention. As she is not in anger or fighting mode. I continued building my arguments to strengthen my point and further convince her I continued
“See our husbands wants an alternate life of enjoying with a different girl, and they have chosen Canadian girl which is risky for us.
We cannot ask them to give up their plan, but we can ask them to bit compromise in their partner selection.
I believe they will accept for this. In such case why don’t we present our self to them?
Advantage for us is that
1. We know both of us each other and we trust each other. I know very well that you will return my husband and similarly you can trust me that I’ll return
Vinod to you. We can feel secure that our husbands are not in wrong hands
2. Though Rajesh and Vinod are having a crave for alternate sex life, I believe they are not too wild, so we will also be safe In their hands.
Both Vinod and Rajesh has good respect on us.
Rajesh will treat you with respect and care for your feelings and concerns and similarly I believe Vinod will also do. So weighing in all these facts, I believe it would be ideal if we swap our husbands within us instead of sending them to unknown Canadian couple.
I continued explaining all the points favoring my thought, from reading her face it appears that she is theoretically agreeing to it, but I see she is practically not convinced of giving her to some other male other than her husband.
Now she started questioning about culture, modesty, shy, shame kind of topics and in summary she questioned how we will be able to face new guy and give us completely to him without shy and guilty.
By the directions of her questions and conversation, I could sense that she is slightly coming down from totally going against swap to with concerns on feel, shy, modesty etc.
It is very unsecure.
So I’m thinking why don’t we stop our husband’s from going for swap with Canadian couple ?
And give them an option of swapping just within us? I mean, Rajesh sleeps with you and Vinod will sleep with me? ”
I gave a bit pause and said “Please don’t mistake me for saying this plan, I’m not saying this plan with any lust or desire on your husband.
I’m proposing this idea with a broader thought to minimize our risk in sending our husbands to Canadian girl”
I gave a pause to watch for Harini’s reaction. I noticed that Harini is in complete shock, but definitely not angry with my idea. It seems she is truly believing that I and she are in problem and she believes me that I’m proposing this idea without any bad intention. As she is not in anger or fighting mode. I continued building my arguments to strengthen my point and further convince her I continued
“See our husbands wants an alternate life of enjoying with a different girl, and they have chosen Canadian girl which is risky for us.
We cannot ask them to give up their plan, but we can ask them to bit compromise in their partner selection.
I believe they will accept for this. In such case why don’t we present our self to them?
Advantage for us is that
1. We know both of us each other and we trust each other. I know very well that you will return my husband and similarly you can trust me that I’ll return
Vinod to you. We can feel secure that our husbands are not in wrong hands
2. Though Rajesh and Vinod are having a crave for alternate sex life, I believe they are not too wild, so we will also be safe In their hands.
Both Vinod and Rajesh has good respect on us.
Rajesh will treat you with respect and care for your feelings and concerns and similarly I believe Vinod will also do. So weighing in all these facts, I believe it would be ideal if we swap our husbands within us instead of sending them to unknown Canadian couple.
I continued explaining all the points favoring my thought, from reading her face it appears that she is theoretically agreeing to it, but I see she is practically not convinced of giving her to some other male other than her husband.
Now she started questioning about culture, modesty, shy, shame kind of topics and in summary she questioned how we will be able to face new guy and give us completely to him without shy and guilty.
By the directions of her questions and conversation, I could sense that she is slightly coming down from totally going against swap to with concerns on feel, shy, modesty etc.