Main unse akele me baat ki wo shadi ke liye ready hai aur unka nature mere family ke liye bahut caring hai sayad isliye meri family ye shadi ke liye ready hai aur unki family bhi ready hai
Kya mujhe meri bhabhi se shadi karni chahiye
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Mera ek dost hai 23-24 saal hai baccho ko tution padhata hai hai abhi do - teen din phele do baccho ka home tutionka un bacchon ka baap army mein hai bahar rheta hai zyada aur ghar mein bas unki maa rheti hai aur in 2-3 dino mein hi un bachon ki maa mere dost se call pe baatein kar rahi hai kabhi 35min kabhi 47min tak waise to baatein actually mein bacchon ki padhai ya phir tution fees pe hoti hai lekin itne samay tak wo aurat baatein karti hai mere dost se aur apni kuch baatein batati rheti hai
Tu kya lagta hai aisa kyun ??
Tu kya lagta hai aisa kyun ??
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rayat6969
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hai to risky ye sab but chote gaon me ho kisi aur se shaadi karoge b to life koi bhut badi dhamaka nhi karne vali jo iske sath nhi hogi morever agar tu bhabhi se shaadi karta hai to vo teri respect bhut karegi tuje pyar b bhut karegi ye b hoga to benifit jyada hai shaadi karne me compare to na karne me broader level pe
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raviranjan3952,
Yeh situation bahut hi sensitive hai aur isme personal aur social dono angles se sochna zaroori hai.
Ek taraf, tumhare family ka suggestion concern se aata hai: wo chahte hain ki tumhari bhabhi, jo abhi bahut young hai aur gaon ke environment me widowhood face kar rahi hai, usse isolation ya stigma na jhelna pade.
Traditional communities me widows ko aksar kathin treatment milta hai, aur family ke andar shaadi ko kabhi kabhi ek tarike ke protection ke roop me dekha jata hai—isse uski dignity bachi rahegi, stability milegi, aur jo baccha paida hone wala hai usko ek father ka naam mil jayega. Is angle se dekha jaye to yeh arrangement dono families ke liye acceptance aur support la sakta hai.
Dusri taraf, shaadi sirf social convenience nahi hoti; yeh ek lifelong commitment hai jisme emotional readiness, mutual respect aur genuine compatibility bahut zaroori hai.
Tumne bataya ki wo caring hai aur ready bhi hai, jo ek positive baat hai, lekin wo sirf 19 saal ki hai, aur uski consent bilkul free aur informed honi chahiye. Tumhe apne aap se yeh sawal karna hoga ki tum yeh raasta apni khud ki desire se choose kar rahe ho ya sirf family expectations aur social pressure ki wajah se.
Agar foundation strong nahi hua to aage chal kar dono ko trapped feel ho sakta hai, aur baccha ek aise environment me bada hoga jahan love ke bajaye resentment ho.
Ek aur factor tumhari apni readiness hai. Tum keh rahe ho ki tumhe lagta hai shaadi sahi step ho sakta hai, lekin yeh reflect karna zaroori hai ki kya tum husband aur father ki role ke liye emotionally prepared ho.
Agar tumhari motivation sirf ek “social problem solve” karna hai, to aage chal kar emotional responsibilities nibhana mushkil ho sakta hai. Agar tum usse genuinely respect karte ho, care karte ho, aur ek future dekhte ho, to yeh shaadi ek painful situation ko supportive partnership me badal sakti hai.
Aakhir me, decision ko rush nahi karna chahiye. Yeh open aur honest conversations par based hona chahiye jo tum dono ke beech ho, parents ya society ke influence ke bina.
Agar tum dono genuinely bond feel karte ho aur ek life saath banana chahte ho, to shaadi ek compassionate aur practical choice ho sakti hai. Lekin agar doubts hain, to better hoga pause karna aur usse socially aur financially support karna bina turant shaadi ke.
Sabse important yeh hai ki decision uski dignity, tumhari emotional truth, aur bacche ke future ko honor kare.
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pqishdgbdnndkfifh .... Apna question (doubt) naya thread mein pucho. Alag Thread Title dena. Sahi and jyada answers milenge.
Ek dusre ko thoda aur time dena chahiye mujhe aisa lagta hai apki baat bilkul sahi hai
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